Friday, January 17, 2014

Video Titled "11 Tips to Conquer Kid Clutter"

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November and December are by far the busiest months for my family and me. On top of the normal holiday merriment, BOTH my children have their birthdays. Not only does this test my time management abilities each year, it also challenges me organizationally. By the time December 26th (finally) arrives, my kids' rooms and closets are literally bursting at the seams, overflowing with birthday trinkets and Christmas treasures. Yes, it's an organizer's greatest nightmare!
On December 26th, while everyone else was flocking the Christmas sale isle, I was perusing the storage and organizing section of Wal-Mart looking for the perfect solutions for my kids' closets. I'm pleased to say I successfully conquered both closets (and lived to tell about it!) Here are some tips and strategies that worked great for my kids, Collin age 6 and Kailea age 4.
Tip #1: Have a goal for getting organized.
I've found with my kids, "Mommy's losing her mind with all this clutter" isn't a terribly compelling motivation to clean up. Create a goal your child can understand and relate to. For my kids, helping other children was very motivating. A local Children's Charity called to say they were going to be in our neighborhood just as we were getting ready to organize their rooms. (Lucky me!) My kids were both very excited about giving their things to children who didn't get many new toys for Christmas and kids who needed clothes to wear. By having a set time for the pick-up we had a deadline, fueling our motivation even further.
When you set out to tackle your kid's room or closet, call charities in your area to see if they'll pick up your items. Also, consider adding an incentive for your child by promising a special treat like a trip to the ice cream shop or a movie rental.
Tip #2: Use a simple sorting system.
One by one, I picked up items off the floor and cleared out the closet. I held up each thing and simply asked my kids "yes or no?" The "yes" items went into a keep pile, sorted by type. (Cars together, dolls together, etc.) We put "no" toys, books and clothes into a bag for charity. (Collin was so into giving his things away, he even wanted to wrap them!)
With your child, set a target number of "no" items. Get really excited when your child hits the magic number. Remember to keep the enthusiasm going during the process by saying things like "just ten more and we've reached our goal!"
Bonus Tip: Keep some sentimental items for yourself.
If your child really gets on a roll, he may put some things in the "donate" bin that you're not quite ready to part with. Get a keepsake box for yourself. Set a limit, either quantity (keeping only a certain number of items) or space (say to yourself "I'll keep things in this bin only and when it's full, I'm done") to make sure your keepsakes don't get out of control. It's best if your child doesn't catch you pulling things out of the donate bag. (We wouldn't want to stall progress, now would we?)
Tip #3: Tackle the project in steps.
If your child's room looks like Collin's did, you might be tempted to tackle it all at once. (Or not at all, in which case give me a call. ;) ) Unless you're willing to do a lot of the work yourself (or your child is an organizer in training), consider spreading the project out over several days. You might start with the floor on day one, the book shelf on day two, and one shelf of the closet on day three, and so on. Whether you organize your child's room in one step or over a series of days, be sure to take lots of fun-filled breaks with your little one. Play with some of those long lost toys you've found under the bed or have a nutritious snack to fuel your energy.
Tip #4: Group toys based on how your child plays.
In our house, Lego's are "toy garbage." Collin uses Lego's with his garbage truck so it makes sense to store these toys together or at least near each other. In a nutshell, ask your child what makes sense to him or her, then honor it (even if it doesn't make sense to you.)
Tip #5: Keep your child involved.
Collin was putting his matchbox cars into a car carrier with compartments for each car. This is great, but very time consuming. I asked him to imagine he had cars all over the floor of his room and it was time to clean up. Would he rather dump the cars into a large bin or put them one by one into the car carrier? He chose the bin. Having had a say in the decision, he'll be more likely to put his cars away.
Tip #6: Let your child do the tasks he enjoys most.
Collin is learning how to write, so he wanted to make his own labels for his bins. I resisted the temptation of "perfect" labels and instead let Collin make them. Involving your child in favorite tasks is another way to give him ownership in the process.
Tip #7: Focus on progress.
Make a big deal out of all the progress you make along the way. Try really hard not to focus on how much there is left to go through or do. Comment often on how much is done, all the great decisions your child has made and so on. You can also encourage him or her by saying things like "look what we found" or "look how much we've gotten done already." Keep it upbeat and fun!
Tip #8: Keep large items in the toy box.
Putting only larger items in your child's toy box prevents smaller toys from sinking to the bottom (a.k.a. never-never land.) Another option is to group smaller toys together in containers before storing in the toy box. Toy boxes seem great in theory, until you have to go on a hunt for your daughter's missing pink Barbie shoe. I can guarantee you it will be on the very bottom of the box. (And when you do finally find it, the shoe will be the only item left in the toy box.)
Tip #9: Label, label, label!
Once everything has a home, use labels to show where everything goes. I started to say, this will make clean up a breeze, but we are talking about kids and cleaning bedrooms. I will say this: by labeling where toys and clothes belong, it will disarm your child of the classic "I don't know where anything goes" excuse. Have you heard that one before?
Tip #10: Store toys strategically.
Keep favorite toys in reach, allowing your child easy access for play and clean up. On top shelves (those out of your child's reach), store things you'd like to supervise your child while using, such as:
- Games or puzzles requiring adult assembly.
- Fragile or keepsake items like china tea sets and collectible books.
- Toys with lots of tiny pieces you would rather not have mixed with other toys with tiny pieces.
Tip #11: Make sure your child understands the system.
You may have noticed I didn't mention Kailea much in the article. Well, truth be known, organizing isn't exactly her thing. I did a lot of her room on my own. This made it even more important for me to tell her exactly how I had organized everything and show her where her things go. Since she can't read, I labeled her toy containers using packaging from her toys. I showed her the labels and asked her what she thought went in each bin or drawer. By going through this process with her, she now knows exactly what goes where. The other day I asked Kailea to clean her room. She said "Mommy, I don't know where everything goes." I told her to get started on her own and put away everything she could by herself. When she got as far as she could, THEN I would help her finish up. Before she knew it, she had put EVERYTHING away, on her own. Talk about proud! She was absolutely beaming.
I hope you and your kids enjoy similar results! Just remember, have fun and don't forget the ice cream!
Aby Garvey is a professional organizer who specializes in helping clients create organized and inspiring spaces with a healthy dose of fun and creativity. She conducts organizing programs and tele-seminars that make it simple to get organized and create clutter-free and inspiring spaces in your home. She is the founder of simplify 101, a columnist for Organize Magazine, and the co-author of The Organized & Inspired Scrapbooker. Visit Aby’s website http://www.simplify101.com for free resources to help you get organized.

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7 Keys to Letting Go

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Do you crave the peace, calm and beauty greater organization would offer you? And yet, at the same time, dread the process of getting there? Here's the good news: you're not alone! For many, the mere thought of letting go creates an almost insurmountable obstacle for getting more organized. And yet ... letting go of excess possessions like supplies, shoes, unused gifts, clothing with the price tags still attached, and incomplete projects, along with letting go of old habits and beliefs about organizing is key to creating a future filled with greater calm, control, and organizational bliss.
So how to do it? There isn't a one-size-fits-all solution. The trick is to figure out what works for you. What will motivate you to overcome "letting-go inertia" and move forward to the peace, calm and beauty you crave? The answer may be just words away! First, let's get into action write away --- yep, that is the kind of write I mean. Go grab a piece of paper and a pen, or better yet, download a handy-dandy worksheet here. Then, come right back here to get yourself ready for some good "letting go".
#1: Connect with the finished result.
The more clearly you can describe to yourself the benefits of letting go, the easier it will be to make any tough decisions that come up during the process. Write down your answers to these simple questions:
Why do you want to change or get more organized?
What are you making space for?
How will your space look, feel and function when you're finished?
Now ... list in vivid detail the benefits you will realize when you are more organized.
Don't forget to write down your answers in complete detail!
#2: Call upon past successes.
Do you remember the last time you really dug deep and let go of unwanted and unneeded things? Close your eyes and think for a minute. How did it feel afterward? Did you feel lighter? Did you feel more positive? Did you feel calm and yet energized at the same time? Were you more able to relax? Did you feel more motivated to do things you really love to do?
Add everything that comes to mind --- all those good and happy feelings --- on your handy-dandy worksheet.
#3: Prioritize
Decide up front which possessions and activities are priorities in your life --- before you ever step foot into the space to be organized.
Answer these questions on your worksheet:
Which belongings in your home are most important to you?
Which activities in your life do you want more time or space for?
#4: Decide how much is enough.
We all have things we love to have plenty of. For some it's tea. For others it's t-shirts. For you it may be shoes, scrapbook supplies or purses. For me ... it's magazines. I just can't seem to get enough! However, for everything you love to love, it's important to strike a balance between too much and not enough. When you have too much of a good thing you may start to feel bad about the excess or you may even forget what you have. On the other end of the continuum is the point where you feel deprived. Where is your comfort zone on the continuum? How much is enough and how much is too much?
For example, before you step into your closet, set a goal. How many t-shirts is enough --- ten, twenty or one-hundred? As long as you have the space for it, can find what you need and feel *good* about your answer --- that's what you strive for. Record your decisions on your worksheet.
#5: Anticipate and remove your obstacles.
Before entering your space of excess, the place you want to whittle down a bit, think about which items will be easy to let go of and which will be a challenge. Add the challenging items to your worksheet along with the reason they'll be difficult to let go of. The reasons are your obstacles. Now, let's figure out some simple strategies for removing common obstacles.
Obstacle 1: The "I might need it someday syndrome."
Strategy: Decide when someday is.
Here's how it works. You come across something and think "I might need this someday." Ask yourself, "realistically, *when* will I need this?" If you can't come up with a definite answer then assign an arbitrary date up to six months out in the future. Put the item in a box, write the date on the outside of the box, and move on. If the "someday" (the date on the box) comes and goes and you haven't needed the item ... you are now free to send it off to a happier place. Ah, doesn't that feel good?
Obstacle 2: The "I paid good money for this syndrome."
Strategy: Accept that the money is spent.
No amount of hanging-onto an item can bring your money back. Whether you keep it or not, the money is gone. Forever. Cut your losses and move on. If you look at something and feel guilty about what you paid for it, yet you're not using it, the guilt won't entice you to use the item. You'll continue to not use the item and continue to feel guilty about it. Why linger in the yuckiness? Let it go.
Obstacle 3: The "garage sale syndrome."
Strategy: Find an alternative happy home for your previously enjoyed items.
The garage sale syndrome sets in when you have decided to let go of some things and yet they continue to linger in your presence, waiting for the big garage sale. It's true; garage sales can be a way to turn some of your no longer needed items into cash. But not without a cost. If letting go of things is difficult for you, a garage sale simply extends the process. Instead, find a charity you'll feel good about donating your items to. Schedule a pick-up for the day after your letting go session. Or check out http://www.freecycle.org. In no time, you'll have treasure hunters lining up to relieve you of your things!
Obstacle 4: The "gift syndrome."
Strategy: Take the fact that the item was a gift out of the equation.
When you come across a gift, ask yourself "Do I need, use or love the item?" It the answer is no, you aren't obligated to keep the item. A gift doesn't come with strings attached. I know this one can be hard to swallow... but it's true.
There are ways you can honor the memory of the gift, without actually holding onto the actual item. For example, if you're a scrapbooker, you could take a photo of the gift and create a mini scrapbook or scrapbook page called "gifts of love." Record who gave you the gift and for what occasion, and then, why that person is special to you. This will allow you to focus on the person who gave you the gift, and their meaning to you, instead of feeling tied to the gift itself.
#6: Create results quickly.
If you're faced with a mound of things to go through, it's easy to become overwhelmed. Look for ways to create visual results quickly. For the things on your list that are easy to let go of, go on a scavenger hunt and collect a box or two full of "don't-need-it" items and start lightening your load right away. As you go through the process, take note of the positive feelings that come up for you. Add this to your handy-dandy worksheet ... and let those positive results fuel more positive results.
#7: Keep building on your successes.
Energized by your quick and easy results, keep moving in the direction of your goals. Set aside thirty minutes a day for tackling a corner, drawer or shelf. Or block out a couple of hours each Saturday to go through a small space in your home. Little by little you'll lighten your load and create peace, calm and beauty in your home and life!
Aby Garvey is a professional organizer who helps clients world-wide create space in their homes and lives for the things they love and value. She is the founder of simplify 101, a columnist for Organize Magazine, and the co-author of The Organized & Inspired Scrapbooker. Visit Aby’s website http://www.simplify101.com for free resources to help you get organized and create space for what matters to you.